0:00 And that's why Ryan, I actually got you something. >> Oh, you did? >> I want you to reach back behind the TV right now. >> What the hell is this? >> Yeah, there's it's taped behind the TV. >> What the hell is this? >> The question here is, how do you teach a girl about guys with ulterior motives? And the story I would like to share is about a friend of mine who um now is like a really famous creator. If if you've ever been on the explore page and you see some girl doing comedy bits, it's probably her. She's like over a mill now, but at the this point she didn't even have social media and she was just a buddy of mine. And um it's very sad what happened a long time ago. Uh so this girl was very very tall, pretty, energetic. Um this is around 2014. She asked me to go with her to a business meeting with a bikini manufacturer here in Vegas who said they
0:52 were going to create her line. You're already saying >> sounds like just some guy, dude. >> Yeah. [laughter] So, she's like, "I'm really nervous about like we both lived in Hollywood at the time." And she's like, "Uh, I really want to I want to go to this meeting, but I'm afraid cuz I don't really I'm not really sure how it's going to go. So, if you can come with me, it'd be really nice." So, then I was like, "Yeah, cool. I'll go with you." >> It's good she didn't go alone. >> Yeah. So, I went with her uh here to Vegas. The meeting's at Sapphire, >> which already is funny, right? It's at Sapphire >> during the day. >> It was in It was at night. >> How come they're not meeting at the ████ Bikini headquarters? >> I know exactly. I guess because these guys are they are in town for like I think they're in town for magic or like a trade show or something. >> So they're like, "Let's meet." And they decide to meet at Sapphire, whatever. So, uh, it's very ob. So, I walk in
1:43 there with her and it's these three like older Asian guys like in suits and it's already clear they didn't know I was coming. So they're already kind of like weird about that. >> Man, we can't roofy her anymore. >> Yeah. Yeah, exactly. It felt like that. So I mean, um yeah. So we sit down at the table with them. Uh they don't get any lap dancers or nothing. They're just we're all just sitting at a table and uh they're mostly just talking between themselves and not even talking to her and or me obviously. And she keeps bringing up like the bikini talk like, "Hey, like so I was thinking about this as a first line, blah blah." and they would always kind of just like brush it off and like avoid the topic. And then uh they just kept pouring her drinks and stuff, but she wasn't even drinking them. So there's like multiple glasses and they just keep pouring drinks. >> Wait, the guys are pouring the drinks or
2:33 the >> the guys are >> Yeah. So it's already kind of weird and ████ >> It's ████ weird. >> And then like after like an hour of this like she goes to the restroom and then um she was like taking a minute. So I'm like maybe I should go like check on her. And then I went over there and she's just crying in the hall. >> So freaking sass her bikini day. >> Yeah. She's just crying and she's like, "Let's just go." >> Yeah. >> That's ████ crazy that she decides to do a business meeting at a strip club and thinks it's all chill. >> She didn't decide that they told her like, "Hey, >> here's the address." And then you show up Sapphire. >> Cuz they just said they would be in Vegas and when we got there they were like, "This is where it's at." And >> Oh, when they when you got there? >> We didn't know it was Sapphire. They gave the address and we don't know that it's a strip club. That's weird. >> That's like some suspect. So, she drove all the way to Vegas and she almost got freaking whatever would have happened to
3:24 her >> probably. And then so that night we just like it was so sad. Like we got a hotel and she was just crying in bed. >> Damn. >> Like the whole night. >> You're like, "Girl, how the ████ did you get so fooled?" >> That's smart. >> I You know what's funny is like I didn't I I was so new to ████ too. It was 2014. >> Oh, so you both were like >> I I don't know anything either and I thought like, "Oh, cool." like that's a it you might be rich from this. How awesome. You know, like I don't know anything either, but I was so I wasn't like now I'd be like it's so obvious, but back then I I kind of had hope with her. >> Were you into this girl at all? >> No, I wasn't into her. No, not like that. >> So, you just did all this just for funsies? >> Yeah. I mean, >> just cuz you're friends. >> Yeah. >> What do you think? >> What do you think their actual play was? >> But I thought it would be fun, too, cuz I you know, clearly they're going to roofy her and take her back and and share her. >> I think they wanted to hook up with her. All three of them.
4:14 >> Was she attractive? >> Yeah, she's very attractive. Yeah. >> But you didn't find her attractive. >> M she was Yeah, I could admit she's attractive, >> but she's But she's too tall for me. >> Which [laughter] one? >> I'm so short. >> Which one out of the three were talking to her? Like was the one that knew her? >> All three of them knew her. They had they had spoken at some point prior. I don't know where or when or like how they set that up, but then they had offered her this thing and said that, "Yeah, come to Vegas. We'll talk about it. We're going to be in town." >> And they're actual business guys. They're actual business guys. Yeah. But it was clear that they had no intention of doing any business with her. They just like put her on to like get her in the room. >> But maybe they just got too intimidated that you were there. They couldn't talk about business as much. >> I think their intentions were pure. [laughter] >> I ruined the business deal. >> Yeah. You kind of ████ blocked the whole company. >> Like we kind of wanted to talk about business, not have this like dancer guy here. [laughter]
5:04 >> You should have lectured her the whole way back. >> Damn. >> Joe has so much gain, dude. You got to you got to you got to be like, "Dude, this could have been so bad if I wasn't here. You man, I I deserve road head or something like that, you know? Just >> that's crazy. >> Damn." >> Yeah, cuz she's not Her height doesn't matter if she's just It's road head, right? >> Anthony Lee, my god. >> Just what? I'm your god. Okay. >> My god. >> How about this reframing back to the original question, but like you're about to have a daughter, so like >> Yeah, exactly. >> What do you say? How do you what do you generically say to make sure that somebody doesn't get cuz you yourself like you admitted even back then you were not >> I don't know that there's a way to generically say it cuz let's say like what I always go back to this moment in time because I think with my knowledge now right >> you know what I think the harsh reality
5:55 is [laughter] >> that guys no no that guys don't have to deal with >> was it >> compared to girls I think no matter what the threats are I think the harsh reality is if you have a daughter you have to let them know at the end of the day there's one extra threat always which is they want to ████ you >> you know I think that's all of them I don't think guys have to but like for so for dudes for us it's like at the end of the day if you're dealing with a stranger with a stranger they um >> they there's always a threat of someone trying to scam you like any business opportunity or whatever. So that's what we have to look out for. But for chicks it's they're trying to scam them and they're trying to ████ them. the layer. >> There's always that layer of threat. >> I guess the difficult thing when I when I go back to this is like would she have listened? Because I don't think a lot of
6:45 I'm not saying women are stubborn. I just mean like you usually want to find out for yourself rather than listen to someone tell you that hey that's ulterior motive. You know what I mean? Like so how do you get that point across? Because most of the time people are like I want to find out and I want to learn. Well, then I think that your friend already did the most right thing >> by bringing a guy along. >> By bringing you along. Yeah. >> But that's where I'm like I don't think if I knew this was the case, I couldn't have talked her out of it. I don't think. >> Yeah. >> She would have came off as a hater. >> I would have come off as like a >> She would have been like, "You don't know." >> Like I don't believe in her. You know what I mean? Like, "Oh, you think you think they want to ████ me that I'm not like capable of having a bikini line." It could have been like anything like that. You know what I And then if you have like a kind of like a teenager like teenager phase that's like you don't know dad you don't you don't know your generation might be shady but not mine and then like they'll be like yeah and
7:36 then they go get their heart broken and ████ cuz a guy used them and then it's like see >> so is there even a way that you can verbally explain to a girl >> like >> mama's got to do it dude I think you can verbally explain it but whether they receive it is on them. >> So for the sake of your daughter you got to be ████ ruthless to your wife. >> That's what I've been thinking. Like I've just been like >> so she could be like that. I don't want that. >> Like how do I protect this girl from like situations like this where it's like they use everything to like get you interested enough to like be there? You know, >> you got to be the bad example and show >> by then she'll think you're lame so she won't even listen to you. >> That's true. Then cuz in the dad factor of like what does he know? >> That doesn't get it. >> But it it does it does have to happen. Like I' i've been trying to tell Tao like you always have to worry about scams and stuff and even with him >> be skeptical. >> Yeah. always be skeptical. So, he
8:26 brought a donor for his best friend and then uh there's a guy there's a guy that's like in his class that's always ████ scammy as ████ Of course, he's Middle Eastern. And then so he brings it for his best friend. >> And out of nowhere, this ████ grabs a donut and just stuffs it in his mouth. >> Is that Middle Eastern to me? >> Yeah. And you can tell how heartbroken he is. And I was like, remember I told you like when people when they like set you up or when they talk to you, there's that one extra layer you always have to be kind of skeptical and consider unless they've already had multiple instances that they prove to you that they your actual friend. >> Yeah. You let people borrow ████ your toys, and it never comes back and you're like, "That's weird. I would have never not gave it back if I borrowed." >> Exactly. >> And he just doesn't register that some people are just shady like that. >> Yeah. Cuz you think everyone has pure thoughts like you do or whatever, but there's a lot of shady ass ████ starting at ████ like 7 years old.
9:17 >> Yeah, but how do you tell your daughter that there are some guys who don't have impure thoughts? There are some guys who are down to go on the road trip with you with no layers involved. >> Well, you want you want to know the real economics of why? >> Yes. >> Because at the time in this year, there were so many options that it was easy to separate between girls. >> Wow. like which ones that are like I'm not attracted to. Which ones >> cuz he has so many choices >> because 20 2014 to 20 [snorts] >> 15 was a good year >> party year. >> It was a good year. Yeah. >> He's like I have >> So you're like my dick is drained. [laughter] >> My balls were empty, dude. I got nothing for you. >> I got to go on this road trip so I can stop ████ >> But he's been he's been to the house. He knows. >> Don't bring me into this. Okay. >> Yeah. >> That's what you got to tell your daughters. Make sure the guy that's your friend is either gay or his balls drained.
10:07 >> [laughter] >> He's a dancer who lives in a ████ party house. >> There was enough There was enough girls to not like to have friends among them. >> That's when you can actually be a friend. >> Cuz if you're down bad, everything's a ████ you know, you luck everybody. Yeah. >> No wonder. I've never been there. So, >> never been there either. So, that's where this guy exists 24/7. >> Sure. But like [laughter] >> this video is basically like >> Ryan being like, "One time I saved this chick." [laughter] >> And that's why Ryan, I actually got you something. >> Oh, you I want you to reach back behind the TV right now. I'm not kidding. >> What the hell is this? >> No, because of all that you've done for women and in the dancer community and everything else. Yeah, there's it's taped behind the TV. >> What the hell is this? >> What the hell [laughter] is for you? >> Look at the emblem. Look at the seal. Look at the seal. >> What does it say? [laughter] What does it say?
10:57 >> So stupid. >> What does it say? What does it say? >> City of Las Vegas. >> City of Las Vegas, Nevada. >> Right now. Read now. Open up. What says in recognition of Ryan Carfrito in high school Reddits residents and visitors to recognize Ryan Carfrito for his outstanding contributions to dance culture and community through his artistry and advocacy. What the hell is this? >> And women saving. >> As a celebrated member of Quest Crew, Ryan has helped elevate the visibility of Asian artists in the dance community. What the ████ Steve? >> Read this. inspiring a generation through memorable performances, including Quest Crew success on America's Best Dance Crew, Beyond the Stage, his commitment to advocating for women [laughter] and amplifying the voices of Asian, Asian-American, Pacific Islander, and other historically under represented
11:47 communities reflects a dedication to inclusion and representation. Ryan's willingness to use his platform with courage and purpose exemplifies his positive influence that artists and community leaders can have on those around them. Signed, Shelley Berkeley, mayor of Las Vegas. >> That's real. That's for you. >> From the mayor. >> From the mayor herself. The mayor of Las Vegas. >> Las Vegas. >> How? This is not real. >> Hold it up. It's real. >> It's real. >> By the way, what day is the proclamation go live? >> September 11th, [laughter] >> 2026. I had to pick that ████ up from city hall. >> That's for you, buddy. >> This is ████ real. >> You got this bit made >> for all my life. [laughter] >> This is really the mayor. >> It's absolutely real. Yeah, that's the mayor of Los. >> You guys know about this already? >> He knows. >> He told me. >> You really got this from the mayor? How
12:37 did you do [laughter] that? HOW DO YOU EVEN DO THAT? >> Some of us can still troll, baby. Some of us still got it. [laughter] >> How does that even happen? >> Some of us don't just put ketchup packets in your shoes. >> [laughter] >> That was wonderful work. That's >> so extreme. [laughter] >> Did you write that out? >> Yeah. Well, I wrote just a bunch of gay dancer ████ that I thought they'd go for. And I and I honestly I told Nikki that night. I was like, I don't know. I think I went too hard on it cuz it's it was kind of gay. >> So then they're not going to buy it. >> They're not going to buy it. And then 4 days later, I was like, "Holy s███." And they they they were like, "Hey, we're going to have it ready for you by tomorrow morning." >> How did you even know you could do that? Uh, I know a little a couple things. >> What is that? What is that? Like recognition of a personal recognition. >> It's a mayoral proclamation. >> Freaking good, dude. [laughter] >> Thank you. No, honestly, so you were
13:28 being such a ████ mayor last time talking about how you wouldn't ever ████ on um um um our our girl. >> Who's our girl? >> Our girl. Um Banos. Banos. THANK YOU. >> WAIT, WHAT? [laughter] >> BANOS. OH, BANOS. She's like a sister. >> And she is. What the ████ >> This guy's such a ████ mayor. I need to have a proclamation made. Wait, what? >> Came home b███████ about it to Nikki. I was like, this guy's such a ████ mayor. [laughter] I need a proclamation made by the ████ mayor >> cuz I won't ████ my friend. >> Yeah, because like she's attractive and you're it's your buddy and Oh, I would never. She's like a sister to me. Like, this guy's a ████ mayor. He should run for president United States. And [laughter] and Nikki was like and I was like, I'm going to get a proclamation made for this ████ >> Wow. I didn't even know that was possible. >> I can't believe it's over that of all things. That's really funny. And you were waiting for that sweet moment. >> I was waiting for a moment >> to tell a story.
14:18 >> It's been taped back there all day. I was waiting. I was like, I know he's going to be a little mad. >> That's why he was shooting out the mirror stuff earlier. So he's like, "Dude, you can't just throw it out there." We were like, "Oh s███." >> Sniffing it out. I was like, "Holy s███." >> I was like, "Oh ████ he's sniffing a little bit." >> You thought I was sniffing it out cuz earlier you were like, "Hey, don't just keep pot. Yeah, why you keep this?" And I was like, "God damn [laughter] it, I'M TRYING TO GET HIM." >> YEAH, CUZ I FELT LIKE YOU WERE I FELT LIKE YOU WERE GOING HARD today on that. >> That's why all are like And then and then Ant is like And I was texting him. I I texted him the this close gym meme from the office. I was like this close. We had this ████ >> All right. >> Thank you. >> Gay. Well played. >> Great timing. >> Thanks, Bart. [applause] >> Game on. Game on, dude. [laughter] >> Hold it up high nice and high for the thumbnail. Hell yeah, brother. >> But how did you guys get it back there? >> I put it in this morning. >> THAT'S THE PART THAT YOU'RE AMAZED AT. [laughter] >> I WAS HERE. >> It was just me back here in Horano. He
15:08 didn't even know what the ████ I was doing. Oh, >> and Anthony. [laughter] >> Dude, that's freaking good, man. >> That's what you're amazed at. >> I can't believe this. >> Shout out Anthony. It was my tape behind the TV. I get some credit. >> No, it wasn't. >> Oh, that was actually your dude. >> Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. T behind the TV. >> That's good. That's good. Wow.
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